Updated: Aug 19, 2020
Have you ever noticed that when you are in a relationship with someone you start to pick up traits from them? Then when you part from them you seem to feel lost like a chunk of you is missing. Why do we feel lost when someone has left our lives? It is because most of us have not learnt to love ourselves so therefore we think we find happiness in someone else? The Ego plays a huge role in how we become dependent on another human being as the Ego loves to make you feel attached to another and make you forget that you are made of love.
Most relationships are based on our Egos and most of us are in a relationship because we are wanting something from the other person to fulfill a want or need within ourselves. If we can learn to love ourselves 100% then we are able to find a selfless love within ourselves therefore within another.
Eckhart Tolle mentions that living in the Now is to “Accept — then act. Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it. Always work with it, not against it. Make it your friend and ally, not your enemy. This will miraculously transform your whole life.”
Being of service to others and learning love in all forms so we can therefore truly love ourselves.
Choosing the positive, loving path and following the clues that the universe gives us as well as honouring your feelings that come from love is always the right path. But in saying that, acknowledging and recognising our emotions and Ego can be an emotional struggle! Finding that balance of peace, love and compassion for all parties as well as being true to your emotions can be hard work. But through meditation and selflove this process becomes easier to handle.
Blessings to you <3 xoxoxoxo